After seeing a ton of questions about this, helping friends through these conversations, etc., I finally sat down and wrote a guide about how to have the kink talk with your partner, whether or not they are into feedism.
loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/TLDR is this:
1. Ask for consent (yes)
2. Keep it hypothetical
3. Don't make assumptions
4. Be open about your actual feelings (eep!)
